I’m a part of a mother’s group that meets up every few months for a drinks and dinner type event. Most of the time the other mothers go home early.
In case the other mothers go home early I have a guy lined up to go meet with after the dinner.
I tell my husband us girls are staying out late, when I’m really going for a quickie with another guy.
When I get home my husband is out cold asleep to be up with the kids early.
I shower at the guys place or as soon as I’m home to wash away the evidence.
This is definately outside the rules of our hotwife play.