Apparently there’s a big difference between cute and hot. Everyone’s I’ve spoken with says I fall on the cute side. I recently tried having a FWB and we’ve been exploring with eachother. We’ve recently been exploring some kinks when I mentioned that rough can be fun sometimes. He laughed and said he would have never expected that from me. I pressed him and asked why. He said I was way too cute to be rough with and slap around. I said “Nuh uh” and all he said was “see”. He kept calling me cute and I got mad. All he could say was it was cute when I got mad.
Eventually we did get around to some fun where he was rough with me but he did keep checking in making sure I was okay. It was super sweet in the end